Madonna’s speech at the Billboard Music Awards this week blew people away with her usual bold, courageous and uncompromising words. Her vulnerability as her strength and integrity had the audience in tears and reaffirmed her fan base to be themselves (as Oscar Wilde famously said) ‘because everyone else is taken’.
How are the gifts of adversity wrapped up and presented to you? What kind of thanks can you give to the rapist, the disease, the predator, the pain? The relationship between grit and gratitude is often a rocky marriage resting on foundations of fear and anxiety, only when trust is given the role of coach can that relationship glow.
You can tell those people who just seem to have an aura about them – a graceful elegance connecting a cosmic presence to the ordinary, human and mundane. These are the people who have come into our line of sight who seem to be able to find laughter in pain and beauty in despair.
What is the recipe for this elixir they have found?
Plant your feet firmly.
Be like a tree by the waterside.
Do not be moved from your calling.
From the deepest well inside of yourself draw the truest of your selves:
Whole and with holes.
Look down the barrel.
Stare into the eyes of your supporters.
Recognise you are a vessel. An instrument. A shrine for the Divine.
A shrine to the Divine.
Hold on. Be still.
Own your dreams.
Be your Self – inside and out.